TL;DR 34 Signs Your Husband is the Closet and Maybe Gay These are the probable signs your husband is in the closet: He tells you that he is gay. He is sexually not into you. He is emotionally detached. He is emotionally inconsistent. He justifies the lack of sex. He uses performance enhancers. He has unusual sexual preferences. He is not jealous. He often says he is trapped. He befriends a lot of new males. He loves spending...